Omnekutty, will you marry me?

I was bored. Since I was bored, I decided to dig some of my old posts incase of any follow-up arguments that I may have missed. The only post which made me to ‘dig’ further was the “Inter-racial minded Malaysian Indians” post. My hands were so damn itchy and I tend to be busybody at times, which made to trace back this Malayalam peeps and what they were up to currently. Surprisingly, I managed to sneak in to some of the “MALAYALEES ONLY!!!” groups in Friendster and out of a few which I went through, only this discussion topic caught my attention:

Malayalam

I believe you all could read the texts shown in the above picture. To summarise things up, what that fella is ‘worried’ about is that why Malayalee girls tend to seek their life partner from different ethnics, such as those of Tamils, Telugus and so forth instead of finding ‘within’ their ethnic? If you guys would have noticed, he kept on mentioning about “Indians guys…” and “mixed Indians…” which made me to wonder in which freaking category does Malayalam falls into? I thought Malayalee is a subset of “Indians” and so do Tamils, Telugus and etc. But for him, Malayalees and Indians are two different entities!

Alright, let’s pause that question for a while and we shall look at what our fellow Malayalees would have replied. Sad to say that nearly all the replies were boring, or should I say neutral replies as I was expecting them to bash those other ethnics for being whatever, whatever and whatever. Now, from that statement itself, I would be expecting some hatred comments saying that I’m poking fun at those Malayalees and ridiculing their so-called attitude. Whatever hoo-has it may be, just bring it!

Malayalam

Oops, I forgot to mention that I came across a biased reply! Just have a look at what our cechi has responded. According to her, ‘practically’ Malayalee girls and boys are fair and some of the Malayalee brothers and sisters are dark a bit. Seriously, I don’t understand a shit what she is crapping about. And, what she is trying to say here? Just because those Malayalee girls and boys are fair, does that mean that they should be destined together? Ohh and another thing cechi, it should be “point of view” and not “point of you” as you have mentioned in your post.

I’ve even came across some replies stating that their culture should be preserved, mother-tongue should be mastered and some even mentioned that Malayalees are much more highly educated and with ‘high moral value’. Come on lar, you people are talking as if Malayalees and other Indian ethnics here IN MALAYSIA are scattered with their very own over-exaggerated culture, tradition and mentality. Do take note that most of our culture and whatever-shit-we-are-doing in our daily life in this country overlap with each other!

Without scenarios, it would be boring! Do you agree?
 


Question: Makkez, if you like a girl, would you give a damn about her ethnicity?
Makkez: I DON’T GIVE A PHUCK! I like her and she likes me and that’s it. Period.

Question: Makkez, if you like a girl, would you give a damn about her ethnicity?
Racist Makkez: Yes. She needs to be X, and she must be fair. Both of us have to keep alive our tradition and culture and preserve our mother-tongue as well. We would ONLY watch movies acted by Mammooty and Mohan-LaL and our MOST favorite dish would be X Payasam. And rest assured that my mobile phone would ONLY contain MMS clips by those of Sheila Nair.

*X = Anything

 
And last but not least, check out what our topic starter gotta reply:

Malayalam

I would be dittoing some of his sentences. “Please put a leg forward for our future generation. Don’t let it been ruin by others”. DID I JUST HEARD SOMEONE SAYING THE WORD “OTHERS”?

*Anticipating eagerly for some hatred comments.
*This article may be deemed as sensitive by some. Well, “Certified M1″ explains it all!


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  • 38 Responses for "Omnekutty, will you marry me?"

    1. Avatar rubenee July 21st, 2008 at 10:56 pm

      Lame,low,stupid,…etc mentality people…This kind people itself is enough to break unity……sigh…….tirentha jenmem…..and I wonder how the f*** they can say Malayalees are much more highly educated and with ‘high moral value’…take note *“point of you” ..explains how educated are this checi…and how d hell she/he can come up with which ethnic are more highly educated..aduiiii…..

      I wish that navin etha and subashini checi will have a look at this article… :mrgreen:

    2. Avatar vinod July 21st, 2008 at 11:06 pm

      I as a Malayalee i would say thanks to makkez to sound it out….
      To all malayalee, i would like to suggest, u should b think more open regards on this topic…im saying this because you cant just marry your partner just because same ethnic..there are many factor apart. it does not meant who i support, its just about logic…

      If you wanna talk about future of malayalam community, i just wondering how many of our malayalam people know to talk our own mother tongue?? I MEANT IT ?? Learn that fully before, if wanna go talk more about our community

    3. Avatar Kav July 21st, 2008 at 11:20 pm

      perhaps these guys should be given a proper lesson in social caste systems, just to enlighten their mis-informed minds. I’ve noticed that such caste-based sentiments arise from the older generation’s unrelentless beliefs.

      Sadly these younger generations have the IQ of a frog, thus making them unable to learn such advanced knowledge. But then again, perhaps they should be having our foot up their asses for being so caste-centric :arrow:

    4. Avatar Durai July 21st, 2008 at 11:27 pm

      Makkez, thaniya ore Research & D center vechiirukingge polehiruke..

      Inthe Malayalem mathum engge irunthethan inthe topic ellam kadekithe ne therile..

      Fair means..Malayalam wants to marry..Engge irunthe di ni vanthe..Mavale..Pichi pudeven Pichi..

      What a generation we’re living in now, and what a disgrace this people are being to Indians society? All this are young fucks on the net la bro, dont know wat to discuss,so they start out a shitty topic like this..nalla varethe vayileh.. patha therile..sethe polamdi…

    5. Avatar Durai July 22nd, 2008 at 1:10 am

      We would ONLY watch movies acted by Mammooty and Mohan-LaL and our MOST favorite dish would be X Payasam. And rest assured that my mobile phone would ONLY contain MMS clips by those of Sheila Nair.

      I like the above part…super comedy…hehehehehe

    6. Avatar Theeyes05 July 22nd, 2008 at 1:52 am

      bange,

      its not all malayale… are like this *%#@… only 70% of them…. :lol:
      mainly thier parents and 80’s ppl…

      nowdays kaalam mari pochi, bange… u noe the song?

      Boy:manasukuley kathal vanthucha…..?

      Girl:vanthe’ley vanthe’ley….!!! :lol: :lol:

      apedi vathechu’na…

      pinna’ley parents aaappu varum’ley….

      thats what sum scared, wen small also they influence the kids la…
      wat to do….! Nammbe romba strict….strict….strict….strict….strict…. :cool:

    7. Avatar inba July 22nd, 2008 at 1:57 am

      dear racist makkez,

      You forgot 2 include mms of shakeela checi. Her b-grade softcore porn manages to collect more ticket sales than mamooty Etha n mohan lal etha. One of the finest exports of Kerala- her .

    8. Avatar falanoz July 22nd, 2008 at 12:46 pm

      subashini…….. irikki arichi oru umma tharu!!.. :oops:

      wt a bunch of malayalees v hv in dis country.. :mad:

    9. Avatar NUTCASE July 22nd, 2008 at 2:25 pm

      :mad:

    10. Avatar Solomon Papaya July 22nd, 2008 at 4:36 pm

      OMG!!
      another @$$hole in da town.. :mad:
      this fellas making me lose my patient oni,la…till now i dunno what the f*cking great with Malayalam??

      dey Navin,do you seriously want to know why Malayalee gals choosing different ethnics rather choosing lame ass like you???

      COZ WE HAVE LONG AND BIG D*CK… :lol:

      tats only d f*ckin reason!! pothuma,ille onne konjum venuma??

      Ya…Congratz,Shaman…U got another partner..
      Mathi-mathi sappengda,pundeyengla…
      Neway,dont forget to invite other ethnics to your wedding..cos later on,your wife need know to whom they need to go if you can’t “satisfy” her!! :mad:

    11. Avatar Logan July 22nd, 2008 at 6:32 pm

      Seems like its going serious here…
      Makkez put a stop to this - you are inviting racism here…

      Anyway - Theyees05’s comment is the best man!!!

      Nammbe romba strict….strict….strict….strict….strict… :grin: :grin: :grin:

    12. Avatar rujjcoomarh July 22nd, 2008 at 7:03 pm

      kadala nakere poonorey…

    13. Avatar Durai July 22nd, 2008 at 9:32 pm

      Kannah nikire konorey..

    14. Avatar Makkez July 22nd, 2008 at 9:36 pm

      @rubenee - Well said, omnekutty! :wink:

      @Vinod - Thanks for being a civilised Malayalee. Not many people think like you do.

      @KaV - Well said bro.

      @Durai - R&D arh? Ama bro… Hehe! Well, you were right, they don’t have any other things to discuss about and therefore they would resort to this kind of discussion. Haihz….

      @Theeyes05 - Not all Malayalee but only 70% of them? Now that is what I call a cynical statistic! :grin:

      @inba - Thanks for the add-on bro! :razz:

      @Solomon Papaya - Yeppa…. :eek:

      @Logan - No I’m not. I’m just being M1.

      @rujjcoomarh - :???:

    15. Avatar dark chocolate July 23rd, 2008 at 1:45 pm

      wtf!!who ever said that malayalees r fair??im a malayalee n to b very honest im kinda a full malayalee..there has never been a mixed marriage in my line of decendents..n i have a dark exotic skin colour mayb like beyonce or kerry washington..n compared to all the other so called “malayalees” in malaysia..i can read n write malayalam..n v speak malayalam at home..but my parents nor my grandparents or any1 in family do not have any problem if me or my sibling married any1 at all as long as v r truly in love..most of the fanatic malayalees in msia cant even speak proper malayalam or know wat is their culture or traditions..they jz put the surname bcoz it sounds cool..
      i think i shld also add her that among my frens i speak lots of tamil n i can also write n read tamil…
      im not bragging bout myself here but seriously..get a life u “malayalees”..noe wat u r tlking about n noe urself pls..as it is the indian community in msia is small..u want to divide it some more..v would become even weaker n smday..v wont even b recognized anymore..
      i dun think the chimese care if they r different ethnics..they still join hands together as 1..y cant v indians do that??
      havent v heard that stick story(the father gives his son i stick to break n it easily breaks but when he asks his sons to break a bunck of stick together..its diff to do so)like a million times??r v so dumb that its so difficult for us to learn from it..dun b dumb asses..
      guess i have been rambling a lil too much..please excuse all my typos n have a good day!

    16. Avatar NUTCASE July 23rd, 2008 at 4:57 pm

      Kudos to Dark Chocolate….If there is more people with attitude like you,world would be such a pleasure to live in.

      Maybe,Navin (the ultimate malayalee) is frustrated no Malayalee girls want to go out with him…maybe they prefer the dark skinned indians rather than the Fair skinned malayalee like NAVIN

      screw him and his buddies….

    17. Avatar MixDaMash July 24th, 2008 at 1:26 am

      :???: seriously? talkin abt ethicity i have jz one ting to say v r malaysian’s..? who bothers abt wats ya skin colour and wat language u speak? im indian 2…bt i only figured out my ethnicity when i was pointed with the question ‘are you a malyalee?’ 2 years back.. and it was quite an issue being not able to identity my origins bk then.. but honestly wen i come to think of it i wud rather be glad not knowing of where i come from o wat i am..its jz a segregation amongst the minority…th0se so called ethnicist jz gotta gr0w up.. holla back…

    18. Avatar upm July 24th, 2008 at 4:38 pm

      enna kodumai sare ithe.. 70% malayalem olige!! haha..

    19. Avatar S. Lee Veles July 25th, 2008 at 8:23 am

      WTF!!!
      I do realise the ethnicity dif goin on but 4 god’s sake…
      Wats that crap bout malayalees bein generally biologically genetically fair “”yet”" some are dark???
      It freakin means ALL INDIANS HV D SAME COMPOSITION OF RBG (red blue green)!!!!

    20. Avatar mmuurrllyy July 29th, 2008 at 1:23 am

      haha..LOL..
      gud article..
      im malayali too…some indian bloggers do know me.. :mrgreen:
      what u have wrote is true.that is what happening now. im not in to this group. im proud to be Malaysian, then Indian, then last will be malayalee. i have own reason why im proud to be that way.

      btw..not all malayalees are FAIR.

      p/s: there are another group that i know that are preserving their ethnicity. There are Goundance (i dunno the spelling LOL)

    21. Avatar S. Lee Veles July 29th, 2008 at 3:25 pm

      mmuurrllyy, I assume ur referring to “kounders”…
      I m not into neither ethnicity nor castes not 4 the usual reason of me bein proud indian watsoeva… its coz I dont really know details of my own ethnic background :!:

      But I do know tat Kounders are not ethnics… they’r a caste(highest i think) in Tamil ethnic…

      Funny, from Indian, break into ethnics, break even smaller into castes… :???:

      Now makkez, Caste fanatics wud b a nice topic 4 you to write on;p

      Cheers!!

    22. Avatar Makkez July 29th, 2008 at 9:58 pm

      Haha, yea bro, I’m just waiting for some significant issue to arise so that it would be easier for me to ‘bombard’ them.. :grin:

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    24. Avatar PrasnA August 28th, 2008 at 9:45 am

      :mad:
      Hi…
      Dont blame gal oni. Guys oso doing the same. I have came across this kind of matter so many time. So…. not oni malayalee gals doing this stupid mistake but same goes wif the malayalee guys…….

    25. Avatar amenism September 9th, 2008 at 2:29 pm

      1 question:

      Are all Malayalee really this bad in English?

      They should be discussing on how to speak/type in English rather than all this nonsense..

      Goodness..

    26. Avatar ravanan September 11th, 2008 at 9:03 am

      malayaleez are very famous for their….. “running” around “others” and once they done…they will marry one nice malayalee (either arranged or love)…if you have been to kerala - ull see more than half are dark skinned. and malayalee too have their own caste….and the best part is those from the lower caste acting like they are above all the tamils.

      and WTF said kounders are highest in Tamil caste ?

      we are talking bout building 1 nation 1 race bangsa malaysia and these pathetic racist hypocrite (bagi yang berkenaan shj) talkin bout ketuanan malayalatan (just like that chedet mama). and dont worry Indians (malayalatan included)….we will be the last group to unite as we are divided by religion,race,caste (and sub-cast),belief and so on.

      makkal sakthi !

    27. Avatar esha December 9th, 2008 at 1:07 pm

      IM HUMAN RACE WHAT R U..? LETS LIVE PEACEFULLY…

    28. Avatar JustHuman January 6th, 2009 at 4:17 pm

      Adi Omne Kutty, Nee Enthan Paranyum….LoL

      What a good article, and how stupid can the Malayalees be??
      Sorry, but This is not the 1st time…why are they sooooooo one track minded?????

      Wake up ppl….don think that ur inferior to others…we are all indians..come under one umbrella…and surviving in a small way in malaysia…

      Like some the comment, pls don’t divide any more…

      If you are talking abt saving ur community there’s tons of other ways than just marriages..in fact marriage is a result of true love..and love don’t see cast, creed, or religion..even color…LoL

    29. Avatar JustHuman January 6th, 2009 at 10:13 pm

      sorry correction for above post superior not inferior..

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    31. Avatar kumar September 6th, 2009 at 10:53 pm

      i am male
      29
      looking for a malayalee girl for a partner

    32. Avatar EVOLUTION December 13th, 2009 at 7:59 pm

      to: dark chocolate

      bloody paandi dog! go to hell fucking black paandi ! no malayali likes to read tamil words, why the fuck malayalis should learn the low class peoples language! hey malayalis call tamils as paandi or keling, tamils got paandi title from keralas king and in malaysia tamils got keling title and indonesia tamil dogs got more low class titles….where ever tamils go the are hated by everyone

    33. Avatar the punjabi blood December 13th, 2009 at 8:04 pm

      in malaysian many punjabi dont call them self as indian bcz they are fear to be the same class with tamils in malaysia …..but punjabis are united and cool people!punjabi rox !!!

    34. Avatar the punjabi blood December 13th, 2009 at 8:06 pm

      tamils has destroyed the image of indians in malaysia and everywhere

    35. Avatar EVOLUTion December 13th, 2009 at 8:10 pm

      MALAYALEES WILL NOT SUPPOR those group formed by keling, example makal shakti, hindraf and all other crabs!!!

    36. Avatar Kumar December 29th, 2009 at 1:51 pm

      You malyalee’s hav no spine, pussy!

    37. Avatar Ivan Jovetic February 14th, 2010 at 2:34 pm

      I’m malayalee as well…but some of the comments by malayalees kinda lame & dumb!!!Guys n girls…definetely there’ll be pro’s n con’s if you attached to some other ethnics…but frankly i would say its a individual preference….and the most annoying thing I would say when you guys talking about the SKIN colors!!!what the hell wrong with you guys….you can judge a person by looking at the skin colors…gosh…bloody APARTHEID!!!let me emphasize, maybe the way our parents thinks its like that…the way they brought and it was inherited to us….but look around us…we need to change…changes its the only thing constant in life….Our community INDIANS very small in msia….no matter ur telugu tamil or malayalees…try to stand UNITED here….Chinese and malays way ahead of us whereby we’r still talking about this rubbish….long live INDIANS….

    38. Avatar JGirl February 23rd, 2010 at 5:47 am

      Of malayalee background too, and I agree some of the views of SOME malayalees is absolutely ridiculous. If you don’t speak the language, you are disrespecting your culture, you buy a pet dog, people put shame on you for owning an pet :eek: , you get lashed at for not liking a particular food item, you need to get married and have kids by the time you are 30, you’re not allowed to have friends of other races other than malayalee and last but not least, if you are in love with someone even if it is outside of your caste system, they no longer consider you a malayalee and will make you inferior..very wrong and stupid and can cause too many strains in family relationships, thus breaking up the family. Also shows that many do not understand that certain circumstances can happen and they may need to face the reality. Too many expectations is very bad, and if you are one who has way too many expectations where the person has to be perfect for marriage, well tough luck, it’s very unlikely you’ll ever get married. But there are many malayalees who are just wonderful and sweet people who can understand the feelings of others and respect their wishes regardless of what it is. The world is different today than what is was before and people’s views have changed about certain things, and the older generations need to realize that and accept it. I do prefer a malayalee only because I feel I can relate better to a mallu, but I really want someone born and brought up aboard, because from what I seen, marrying one from India will create dictatorship in your house hold where the wife will be severe depression and unhappy. But if there is someone there for me who is of another race/background and we both feel that can committ to marriage, I’ll happily accept it. There is nothing wrong with marrying an outsider in any circumstance. It has NOTHING to do with culture and ethnic identity. Pure love for someone and your heritage are two different things. Just because you marry an outsider does not mean you don’t respect your culture. You can still hold on to your culture, values etc while married to some one different. It will not do any harm at all! I have a relative who is married to a non Indian and they have been married for almost 6 years, have been blessed with a beautiful daughter and are expecting baby #2 this summer and just seem so happy. The non Indian is very good to his wife, and he is very respectful to our family and loves us just like his own. Sad thing is I have a few other relatives who are against him because of his race and probably don’t like him, (but that doesn’t matter because they are not very much liked anyway). And you know what, it’s ironic that some arranged marriages to other mallus for keeping the culture just shatter in pieces later on. Key is EVERYONE IS ENTITITLED TO THEIR OWN HAPPINESS NO MATTER WHAT RACE OR ETHNICITY. You are responsible to find what makes YOU happy, because you would only know, not anyone else. If you let others take over your control and force you some of these dumb rules, I guarantee you that you will be miserable to no end.


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