Lovely Indian girls VS Furious Indian guys

July 29, 2008 | By Makkez In M1 Articles |

Why

Damn, it is kinda boring for not being bombarded with some hatred feedbacks for the past few weeks and I gotta say that life sucks without them! “Mind your own businesslar”, “You think you are better?”, “Stop stereotyping!”, “Puhhleassseeee lar!”. You name it! Oh my, I miss those commentators!

Anyhow, back to our topic today. So, what the title gotta say huh? Lovely Indian girls? Furious Indian guys? Well ladies and gentleman, according to facts, we are all living under the same umbrella called homosapiens and the only thing which segregates us apart would be race, religion and beliefs. To go further deeper, there would be those males, females and ‘aravanis’. Candidly, I do not know much about those ‘aravanis’ and their ‘mentality’, so it is better for me to put them aside for the time being.

Referring to the title again, “Lovely Indian girls” could be best described as how ‘lovely’ or how ‘rapat’ girls tend to be amongst themselves whilst “Furious Indian guys” could be best described as how ‘furious’ or how ‘ganas’ guys tend to be amongst themselves. No, I’m am neither talking about those gays nor am I referring to those lesbians. It is just among FRIENDS, yape, PLAIN FRIENDS!

I have friends, you have friends, your parents have friends and even some of your pets do consider you/us as a friend and vice-versa. What perplexes me is that why the interrelation of girls differs SOOO MUCH with those of guys? You see, in Friendster (sorry for interjecting Friendster over and over again. It happens to be a ‘life’ for some people out there), whenever I came across some profiles belonging to the girls, I would be attracted to their ‘comments’ section and there would be a high possibility of HER best girl friend posting a comment for her in her profile:
 

hey hawtie!…
you look hot babe!…
miss u loadxxx….
luv u so much dear…
muaxxxxx!!!

 
Forget about those ‘decorations’ in those wordings. It is common for some girls to beautify their words in that way and I seriously have no idea what made them to think like that. Dear ladies and gentlemen, the previous sentence was made on purpose so that some hatred comments would be paving its way. Cheers!

So now, my question confusion is, why guys can’t be like that? Why guys can’t be lovely as those girls do? Stop! Before I proceed further, I am not saying that GUYS SHOULD BEHAVE LIKE THOSE GIRLS! NO! I’m just seeking some clarification here. Please note the difference. Seriously, I COULD NOT IMAGINE myself sending a message to my purported friend named Muthu in Friendster assuming that he is in overseas:
 


dei macha..
how are you dear?…
i miss u so much yar..
come back faster dear..
luv u.. muaxx!

 
The very following day, I would be getting a reply from him. Either:

a) Dei, unneku enna paitiyo pudichirukka? Poda velekene!
b) Macha, you turned to be a gay arh?
c) Macha, someone hacked your profile and is playing the fool with me.

You saw that? He just couldn’t accept the fact that I sent that message from a PURE, TRUE and GENUINE friend’s perspective and the very following day, I would be labeled as a GAY or a ‘VELEKENE’. How pathetic! Please guys, don’t tell me you are the other way around and all sort of bullshit. Let’s talk about the facts shall we? For guys, it is usual for them to send and receive messages back and forth such as this:
 

yoooo!!
wassup macha?..
how are you?..
come back faster lar, got some new chicks here in town..
apperoomm thannii adiippommmm!!
k cha, hit me back!
ciouzzzzz….!

 
Could you spot any instance of ‘dear’, ‘luv u’ or even ‘muax’ in the above example? Definitely not! Why? Because we are ‘guys’ and that’s it. No further explanation given! You see, there is no such thing as the words “dear”, “luv u” and “muax” being assigned exclusively for girls and ONLY for girls. That is utter bullshit! But, whenever any guys tend to use these kind of words towards other guys (exclude those gays please), it would be a taboo and a laughing stock. Or even worse, being labeled as “velekene”. Why is the ‘double-standard’ here? I meant, what made that ‘double-standard’ to pave its way?

Let us try twisting some things around, shall we?

“Furious Indian girls” sending messages to each other.

Dei prisha..
maire… how are you?…
your posing like a big paruppe ony.. haha… podi p****!

“Lovely Indian guys” sending messages to each other.

hai my muthu cayang!!!
ur hair is so cool dear!… i wish i had like those…
you look hot dude!..
miss u so much.. muaxxxxx!

The above examples are categorised as URBAN LEGENDS. Although some *might* claim that “Hey, me and my friends do talk like that OK!”, but only the god knows what they are up to.

Once again, I’m not saying that guys should behave like those “Lovely Indian girls”, HELL NO, but I’m just seeking a clarification here. What made both of the sexes to differ from each other? Why is the so-called ‘double-standard’?

:evil:

luv u all….. muaxxxxxxx…..



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    • 30 Responses for "Lovely Indian girls VS Furious Indian guys"

    1. Avatar dv July 29th, 2008 at 12:01 am

      dey makkez…your articlez r superb da..miss you so much..muaxxxxxxxx…lolz :razz:

    2. Avatar tzarina July 29th, 2008 at 1:26 am

      Deii makke(z)-payeleh,

      Nanna ikiea?

      Rombe kuvere… Wasssssaaaaaap???

      Savvadi post daa! Thanni pesuthaa?

      Ok. ciaozzzzzzzz!

      p/s: i am an XX ;)

    3. Avatar Durai July 29th, 2008 at 2:09 am

      MAkkez, one super article bro, i like the last part . The exchange of dialogues.

      Ninggethan bro M1 King….haha…naneh sisisyen ayithen….

      Guru sisyen… :lol:

    4. Avatar k3sh July 29th, 2008 at 8:45 am

      haha i like muthu’s third reply:
      c) Macha, someone hacked your profile and is playing the fool with me.

    5. Avatar Chan July 29th, 2008 at 12:19 pm

      Makkez.. i tried to spit the words like..”the lovely indian girls do”…but ….it chockes me when im thinking the words to send to the kaingels.. no word is coming out man .. :shock:

      i just imagine the tupperan i can get if i send sms to them (to admid , i will tupperan them if i had received the same type of sms)… err…. :mrgreen:

      nambe (a.k.a myself) already soaked into the macho type communication.. i’m cool with the double standards :?:

      other expected reply from the kaingal…
      d) yeeeaannn!!!…..nalla thane poikittu irunthechee…. :lol:

      Nalla posting.. will keep my mind thinking of it for few days… :wink:

    6. Avatar Makkez July 29th, 2008 at 12:25 pm

      @dv and tzarina -

      Yeneiye vechi ningge unnu comedy kimidi panuleiye…. :!:

      @Durai -

      Ellam unggel asirvatham bro. Yaaro sonangge, guru sisyhen ellam parke kudathu nu… athu nalle than Tamilan urupedame irukannu… Hmmm….

      @k3sh – :grin:

      @Chan –

      Thanks for the ‘additional’ reply bro. As for the ‘tupperan’ thing, we all would be getting the same tupperan as well bro. Haha.

    7. Avatar rujjcoomarh July 29th, 2008 at 2:14 pm

      muaxx da makkez…savadi article di..

    8. Avatar Logan July 29th, 2008 at 2:32 pm

      haha, cant agree more with K3sh ! love that reply.
      i tried to sms to 1 of my dude right after reading this, and guess what……. until now no reply yet :idea: hope he doesnt mistaken me as Gay.. :eek:

      hahahahahahaa…

    9. Avatar Durai July 29th, 2008 at 5:26 pm

      :lol: Enneh manichirengggggeehhh bro….

    10. Avatar JuNiO VinodX July 29th, 2008 at 6:42 pm

      wakakaka……
      funny article :P

      like dis part

      Macha, someone hacked your profile and is playing the fool with me.

      bye da makkez…
      dear hit me back wif ur another article…
      luv u da….
      muaxxxxxxxxx tc…………..

      wakakaka..idhu yeppadi? :lol:

    11. Avatar Makkez July 29th, 2008 at 9:48 pm

      @rujjcoomarh – Hehe.. luv u… muaxx :oops:

      @Logan – Something that we all would be aware of!

      @Durai – Athu! :lol:

      @JuNiO – Supera irukke….. :grin:

    12. Avatar Eva July 30th, 2008 at 9:50 am

      Hehe…i feel that guys dont use lovely words because it sounds soft and girlish ya.. :lol:

      Its something like girls can wear pants and jeans but guys dont skirts ya…hehe..girls can use guy’s ‘language’ but guys cant use girl’s ‘language’..haha…that’s what happening everywhere..

      Just a tradition that all the guys and girls follow… :mrgreen:

      But makkez, this soft language are used among close friends, no matter girl and a girl or let it be a guy and a girl…but it can never happen between a guy and a guy…. :razz:

      Cheers! :smile:

    13. Avatar Theeyes05 July 30th, 2008 at 12:24 pm

      makkez, something wrong with u ady….

      orey love’ah irukke ippe’lam…..

      yaar athu….yaar athu….manase thirudenethu????
      :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

    14. Avatar Makkez July 30th, 2008 at 12:57 pm

      @Eva- Well eva, that is why this article was brought up…. Why a guy and another guy could not talk like that? Haha.. :grin:

      @Theeyes05 – No such thing lar bro… kadavule…

    15. Avatar rubenee July 30th, 2008 at 1:55 pm

      Aiks,very late I’m commenting this post.. :wink:

      I think girls feels it cool and stylo to send comment in such way or feels the closeness between them but sometimes it sounds like lesbians.. :razz:

      Well,its tak pe attitude when girls do it and when guys do it,it will a big hoo-haa..Double-standard…haizz…

      And like girls wearing pants and jeans but guys don’t wear skirts rite..Give a try and then jadi equal with girls in clothing aspect…. :grin:

      Wonder how it look like IF you guys roaming ard wearing skirt… -ROFL-

    16. Avatar Eva July 30th, 2008 at 3:48 pm

      hehe :mrgreen: …makkez, usage of soft language among guys are not logic as they like to be ‘MACHO’ even in the way they express themselves ya … if guys wanna make revolution by using the soft language, then maybe… :razz:

    17. Avatar Makkez July 31st, 2008 at 12:00 am

      @rubenee – Guys wearing skirt? Yen inthe aasai? :???:

      @Eva – ….then maybe it would be a chaos! :idea:

    18. Avatar mike July 31st, 2008 at 10:36 am

      hai makkez…this is something nice to read and think about….
      its really depends on how close we with our frenz and their way of thinking…..i have some very close frenz tat i use miss u…muax( this sentence will make me a gay ah??? :lol: …) ….and I ALSO have some frenz that i use ” macha….ena maire da penereh….”
      for me…using some of the words like girls using or being like very macho in talking to our guys frenz is not important…its how much u really being “A friend” and care to ” miss u boy..” kind of fren or ” maire, epidi da irreke” kind of fren…..
      however…respect 2 ur post makkez….cool :cool: …tc

    19. Avatar mike July 31st, 2008 at 10:43 am

      rubenee…..i didnot find any post from makkez about clothes here…
      ore jokee la ungeleke……it is funny if guys wear like girls…..BUT
      ……..we al still guys who wearing like guys…. u galz why wear like US???wanna be cool?macho galz…… or showing wat u al “have” by wearing tat…..

    20. Avatar rubenee July 31st, 2008 at 12:07 pm

      Well,either I didn’t find about clothes in this post..

      It’s just a comparison you see… “like”…..

      Aiseh….I can’t really see what’s cool and macho in wearing like guys…and, showing what we all “have” by wearing is totally out of the context… Girls do wear like guy but not “guys clothing” because it is comfortable….and safety wise,it is really useful…Wearing skirt just making rapist job easy…I don’t wish to elaborate further..maybe if makkez come up with such topic..

      Do scottish guys looks funny in their traditional cloth?? It’s just how we see things…

      Makkez,sorry for straying out of the topic…

      Cheers! :smile:

    21. Avatar mike July 31st, 2008 at 12:50 pm

      OOO like tat ah rubenee..comfortable and safety…..good reason also….

      about scottish guys…they do look funny thou..dont u? :mrgreen:

      rubenee u say: “Wearing skirt just making rapist job easy” ….. naleh kahrethe…….funny la u…..hope girls dun wear clothes made of steel… or using lock of watever in future…..hehehe….safety la….

      rubenee…….tc… :mrgreen: :wink: :smile:

    22. Avatar rubenee July 31st, 2008 at 1:00 pm

      As i said , it’s just how you see the things…

      Funny?? :evil:

      HAHAHA…that’s toooooooooo much for safety wise..Anyway,most of the girls are aware of some perverts…. :wink:

      You too tc… :mrgreen:

    23. Avatar mike July 31st, 2008 at 2:02 pm

      :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

    24. Avatar Makkez July 31st, 2008 at 10:48 pm

      Cheers mike! And thanks for sharing your personal experience. That is something ‘unique’ I would say! :wink:

      @rubenee – Don’t worry, you are not ‘straying’! :wink:

      And, I do agree with Mike about your ‘karuthe’ –> “Wearing skirt just making rapist job easy”.

      Haha.. :razz:

    25. Avatar unreadable mind August 1st, 2008 at 11:03 am

      :lol: Yosika vendiya vishyam than…
      so how will u chtegorize, if a gal send those kind of sweet words for her BEST MALE FRIEND uh….?
      do u have any explanation for that.

      anyhow take care cha MUAAAAH~X hahahahahahha :razz:

    26. Avatar Makkez August 1st, 2008 at 11:29 pm

      @unreadable mind

      Well, that case is very obvious and significant. I meant, most of the girls would do like that to the opposite sex and vice versa depending on how close and what kind of relationship they are in. It is just common! :wink:

      Ohh and muax to you too! :razz:

    27. Avatar Naturetech August 2nd, 2008 at 2:33 am

      :lol:

      Hahahahaha…goofy!

    28. Avatar crazygurl.. August 15th, 2008 at 7:02 pm

      well yeah..girlz like saying those..even me i say that in friendster..like hey bebz..how are you..so bored u never come to school..anywayz msg me when ur free..chao..love uu..muaaaaaaahhxxxx..not wrong right?? :lol:

    29. Avatar amenism September 9th, 2008 at 2:20 pm

      Hahahah.. Your’re sooo right.. Thats how it is i guess .no questions asked why a guy doesnt “deco” his msges.. and its true, you’ll end up being called a GAY!! hahahahaha

      And as a girl, if i see a guy sending those decorative msges to another male… then i’d just have to laugh. never wondered why it couldnt be.

      Man you’re articles are good…

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